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Patterns, both sides and method

Real relationships are built on trust. And no one builds it alone.

Understand your patterns, see both sides of each relationship and grow with method. Confidey remembers everything, for as long as you want.

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A real Confidey screen: the home screen, with your day
Real privacyThe people you add never see them
Both sidesEach in their own space
12 named methodsExercises that never repeat
In five languagesEnglish, Spanish, Portuguese, German and French
In under two minutes

See how Confidey works.

The real screens, what she does in each relationship, and why she exists.

Why this matters

Relationships shape your health, and so does loneliness.

50%

higher odds of survival for people with strong relationships.

Holt-Lunstad, Smith and Layton, 2010 · 148 studies
1/6

of people worldwide are affected by loneliness.

World Health Organization, 2025
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sides to every relationship. Almost every tool hears only one.

Where these numbers come from

What if someone remembered everything, saw both sides and showed you the next step?

How it works

Easy to start. Grows with you.

Three steps. The rest is at your pace.

1

Talk your way

By text or by voice, without judgement, about yourself or about someone. It keeps the context of each relationship.

2

See your patterns

What repeats in each relationship, and trust over time. With the other person here, both sides.

3

Grow with method

A direction, one exercise a day from a method with a named author, and the starting measure that returns at the end of the cycle.

Both sides

When the other person is here too, Confidey sees both sides.

Each of you talks in private. Confidey weighs what you want and what the other person seems to want, and shows each of you your own way in that relationship. No one sees what the other said in private.

1

Invite who matters

A link or QR brings the other person in. It is optional, and only if they accept.

2

Each one in private

You answer the same question without seeing the other’s. The answers appear side by side when you both finish.

3

What repeats, and what works for both

Confidey shows each of you what it has been noticing in the relationship, and the way forward that respects both sides.

Question of the day

What makes you feel cared for by me?

You

When you ask about my day without rushing.

Mom

A hug when I get home, before any talk.

12 days answering together
Who it’s for

Confidey is for every relationship that matters.

No matter where you are: there’s always a way to understand better and care more.

Anyone who feels alone

A safe, private space to talk without judgment, when you need to let things out.

Couples

Who want to care for and improve the relationship over time, understanding both sides and rebuilding trust.

Meeting someone new

To understand this person you just met, read the signs and not repeat old patterns.

Friendships

To keep who matters close, remember what counts and care for friends even in the rush.

Partners and work

Trust is built (and measured) at work too, with whoever you run projects and business with.

Family

To repair, reconnect and care for blood ties, at the pace each relationship needs.

Why it works for you

Nobody arrives here for the same reason.

The difficulty of talking about what matters is not the same for everyone. What changes is the way in, not the care.

For women

The question is usually concrete: how to say this without breaking the relationship. Confidey drafts it in your tone, and you rehearse before.

For men

No audience here, and nothing to prove. You talk however you can, whenever you can, and leave with a next step, not ready-made advice.

At any age

At eighteen, forty or seventy, relationships are still what weighs most. Access respects each country’s minimum age.

Day to day

When Confidey steps in.

Not just for a crisis. It is there to care all the time, with small gestures before something goes wrong.

Keep the relationship up to date

See how trust stands with each person and what Confidey has been noticing, before something cools off.

I don’t know how to say it

It drafts the message in your tone, and you fine-tune it together before sending.

Rebuild trust

After a rift, it helps you repair with care, at the right pace.

Just vent

A safe, private space, just yours, to let it out and breathe, by text or by voice.

Understand someone

What you want, what the other person seems to want, and what repeats between you.

Enjoy the company

Not everything is a problem. Games and the question of the day to strengthen the bond, lightly.

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Every day

Relationships are cared for every day, not once.

Small gestures that keep each bond alive, with a clear purpose.

A goal of your own

Pick an area to work on. Confidey builds a path for as long as you choose, and what it proposes changes as you go.

Real life

Say how your last contact with each person went: good, okay or hard. That is what moves the trust in them.

Today’s exercise

A few minutes, one question at a time, never the same one twice. Alone, or with someone who matters answering too.

The question of the day

With each connected person, one question a day. The answers appear side by side when you both answer.

See what it looks like inside

See inside

What you will find inside.

Real Confidey screens, as they are today.

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With method

No guesswork: every exercise comes from a named method with an author.

Twelve methods from psychology and coaching, adapted to everyday relationships.

Saying it without accusingNonviolent Communication · Marshall Rosenberg
Talking about a behaviour, not a personSBI model · Center for Creative Leadership
Both sides of the conversationTwo-chair dialogue · Fritz Perls
From what happened to what you concludedLadder of inference · Chris Argyris
Where you want to get toGROW model · John Whitmore
From zero to tenScaling question · Steve de Shazer and Insoo Kim Berg
If it happens, I do thisImplementation intentions · Peter Gollwitzer
What pushes and what holds backForce field analysis · Kurt Lewin
What actually mattersValues, from acceptance and commitment therapy · Steven Hayes and William R. Miller
How this startedLifeline, from narrative therapy
One small thing, doneBehavioral activation · Peter Lewinsohn and Christopher Martell
Where your attention goesWheel of life · Paul J. Meyer

See the research behind it

And how much does all of this cost?

Plans

Start free. Upgrade when it makes sense.

No lock-in and no catch. Cancel anytime. Save 20% on the annual plan.

Free
US$ 0
Forever
  • A goal with a path and one exercise a day
  • 10 messages a day
  • 5 min of voice per month
  • Unlimited connections
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RecommendedPlus
US$ 14,99US$ 11,99 /mo
US$ 0,39 por dia · Cobrado US$ 143,88 por ano
  • Unlimited text messages
  • 45 min of voice per month9x more
  • 5 exercises a day5x more
  • 2 characters to rehearse
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Max
US$ 29,99US$ 23,99 /mo
US$ 0,79 por dia · Cobrado US$ 287,88 por ano
  • Everything in Plus, with no exercise ceiling
  • 120 min of voice per month24x more
  • Up to 5 characters
  • Share limits with up to 3 people
Go Max

Annual billed once a year. Voice is never unlimited, for fair use. Prices in US$, € and £.

Confidey for professionals

You run the session. Confidey looks after the gap.

Days pass between one session and the next, and that gap is where a person tries, gets stuck or gives up. Confidey organises it and gives you back what happened there, with the explicit consent of the person on the other side.

See Confidey for professionals For psychologists, psychotherapists, coaches and clinics.
Goals and exercises with a deadline

You assign it, the person does it in the app, and you see what got done and where they got stuck. No starting the session by asking it all over again.

Only what the person allowed

They see item by item what is being shared, and can undo it whenever they want, without giving a reason.

A conversation stays a conversation

Conversation content is never shared, and no permission exists that would allow it.

Coming to your phone

The app is on its way.

It is not in the stores yet. When it is, it will be the same space, the same conversation and the same memory as the site, for iPhone and Android. Leave your details and we will tell you first.

Right where you left offWhat you wrote on the site will be there
Locked with a PINNothing will show on the lock screen
Voice callsTalking with your eyes closed, at the end of the day
Your goal, with youToday’s exercise, in your pocket, wherever you are

Only to let you know when the app is out. No account, no password, and you can leave the list whenever you want.

FAQ

Frequently asked questions.

What is Confidey?+
A private place to understand and care for the relationships that matter, including the one with yourself. Confidey shows you your patterns, looks at both sides of a relationship when the other person is here too, and helps you grow with method: one exercise a day, from methodologies with a named author. And it remembers everything between one time and the next.
How does it work?+
You talk with Confidey by text or by voice, about yourself or about someone. It keeps the context of each relationship and shows what repeats in it. If the other person also uses Confidey, you answer together, each in private, and it considers both sides. And you choose a direction, with a path in cycles for as long as you want and one short exercise a day.
How much does it cost?+
It starts free, with no card. Plus is 14.99 a month and Max is 29.99, in your region’s currency (US$, € or £), with 20% off on the annual plan. Cancel anytime.
Does the free plan have limits?+
Free has the whole path: one goal, one exercise a day, commitments with reminders and the tasks of the day, with unlimited connections, 10 messages a day and 5 minutes of voice a month. Characters start on Plus.
How does privacy work?+
Your conversation travels over an encrypted connection, and the backup is encrypted before it leaves the server. The people you add never see your notes, and you can lock the app with a PIN. What you share is an invite, never your conversations.
Do I need to add real people?+
No. You can work on what is yours alone, or create fictional characters to rehearse conversations. Adding real people is optional, and it is where Confidey gets even stronger.
Can I cancel anytime?+
Yes, no paperwork and no lock-in. You start free, with no card, and cancel the subscription whenever you want in two taps.
Does it work in my language?+
Yes: English, Portuguese, Spanish, German and French. Confidey detects your device language automatically, and you can switch whenever you want.
Does Confidey replace therapy?+
No. It is support for reflecting on and caring for your relationships, not a substitute for professional care. In hard moments, it encourages you to seek specialised help.

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